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- Janna Lemur
- Apr 7
- 5 min read
"The true measure of any healthcare system is how it treats its workers. When abuse is tolerated, the care and compassion we promise patients is compromised."

Healthcare workers are often described as "heroes," tirelessly dedicating themselves to the well-being of others. Yet, they are also vulnerable to violence and abuse, not only from patients and families but also from within the healthcare system itself. Whether it's verbal assaults, emotional manipulation, or physical threats, healthcare workers are subjected to a level of mistreatment that is unacceptable in any workplace, especially one that prides itself on professionalism and care. The time has come for us to acknowledge the severity of this issue and work together to address it.
The Scope of the Problem
Healthcare workers face abuse in various forms across different settings, especially in high-stress environments such as emergency rooms, trauma surgical departments, psychiatric units, and intensive care units. According to the World Health Organization, 1 in 4 healthcare workers globally experience violence in the workplace. While patients and families contribute to some of these incidents, a significant portion of the abuse comes from colleagues, management, physicians, and surgeons. This issue is further compounded by a healthcare culture that often turns a blind eye to abusive behavior, perpetuating the problem and leaving workers feeling unsupported and unsafe.
Personal Experience: A Moment of Realization
Many years ago, while on a 13-week travel nurse assignment in the operating room, I was assigned a case with a surgeon that most of the staff didn't want to work with due to his reputation for abusively bad behavior. I asked my manager in private if I could switch rooms. I wanted to be honest about my desire to not put myself in harmโs way, but I was too afraid to speak openly. I had learned the hard way in my career that when you try to speak up, you often face punishment or isolation, creating an even bigger target for being the "difficult" employee. So, instead of being honest, I made up a neutral "safe" excuse. It didnโt work, and I was forced to work with him anyway.
During the surgery, the surgeon was on one of his usual verbal tirades. He demanded I go and get a specific suture, and when I came back with the wrong one by accident, he exploded and proceeded to throw a pair of surgical scissors across the room at me, missing my eye by an inch. At that point, I had experienced enough abuse and bad behavior from mentally and emotionally unstable surgeons, and I had experienced enough. The blood rushed to my face, and I could feel the anger surging. When the case ended, I spoke to a coworker about what happened and that I was going to report him. They looked at me and said, "It's not a big deal; it didn't end up hitting you in the eye, so just let it go." This blatant complicity and the attitude of "donโt rock the boat" or "just accept bad behavior because thatโs how it is" is unacceptable, especially in an industry that claims to be professional.
The surgeon noticed how upset I was and pulled me aside afterward, likely because he realized he needed to diffuse the situation. Ironically, he echoed my coworkerโs words, saying, โYou look upset, but it didnโt hit you, so you're fine.โ I looked at him and said, โDonโt ever disrespect me like that again.โ He chuckled smugly and responded with a simple, โGotcha,โ before walking away. Nothing came of this experience, and unfortunately, this is often the case. When healthcare workers try to stand up for themselves in these situations, action is often not taken, as these incidents continue to get swept under the rug.
The Role of Leadership and Accountability
Healthcare workers deserve a workplace where they can perform their duties safely and with dignity. However, when abusive behavior is allowed to persist, whether from patients, families, or colleagues, those same workers face physical, emotional, and psychological tolls. The impact of this abuse extends beyond the individuals directly affected, as it also diminishes the quality of care provided to patients and increases the risk of staff burnout and high turnover rates.
Leadership and hospital administration must take responsibility for fostering a culture of safety, respect, and accountability. When leadership turns a blind eye to abuse, it does more than neglect the problem; it abandons the very individuals they are supposed to protect. It sends a dangerous message: that the well-being of healthcare workers doesnโt matter as much as the hospital's bottom line and that abuse, even when it's blatant, is tolerable. This neglect only encourages perpetrators' behavior while further isolating its victims.
The Message to Healthcare Leadership
Next time you witness or hear about a staff member being mistreated, abused, or violated, take a moment to reflect. Imagine if that person were your child, enduring abuse in silence while no one stepped in to protect them. What message would that send? For those without children, put yourself in their shoes; how would you feel if it were you in their position? True leadership means standing up for whatโs right, even when itโs confronting, and protecting those who need it most. Your team doesn't have to be your family by blood to deserve your protection.
As healthcare leaders, our responsibility extends beyond patients to include the team as a whole. Protect, support, and lead with compassion and accountability. Act when it matters most, not just when itโs convenient. Allowing abuse to persist under your watch isnโt just tolerating harmful behavior; it is complicit betrayal that erodes trust and undermines the integrity of the entire healthcare system.
7 Steps for Protecting and Supporting Healthcare Workers
Enforce Zero-Tolerance Policies: Implement and rigorously enforce a zero-tolerance policy for any form of verbal, physical, or emotional abuse toward healthcare workers. This must apply across the board, including all levels of staff, from managers to healthcare providers.
Ensure Safe, Confidential Reporting: Provide anonymous and confidential reporting channels for workers to report abuse without fear of retaliation. Make sure these reports are taken seriously, investigated thoroughly, and addressed promptly.
Mandate De-escalation and Conflict Resolution Training: Require all staff, from frontline workers to leadership, to undergo mandatory training in de-escalation techniques and conflict resolution. Equip everyone with the tools to manage difficult situations without escalating to abuse or violence.
Hold Leadership Accountable: Leaders and administration must lead by example and act swiftly when abuse occurs. Ensure investigations are conducted fairly and appropriate disciplinary actions are taken, regardless of the perpetratorโs position or rank.
Foster a Culture of Respect and Compassion: Create a work environment grounded in mutual respect and empathy. Prioritize mental health support, recognize the hard work of healthcare workers, and foster open communication to reduce stress and improve morale.
Eliminate Retaliation: Enforce strong anti-retaliation policies to protect workers who report abuse. Ensure that they feel secure in coming forward without fear of career repercussions or ostracism.
Commit to Ongoing Improvement: Continuously review and refine policies, training programs, and the overall workplace culture. Regularly gather feedback from staff and adjust strategies to meet their needs and ensure a safe and supportive environment.
Leading with Compassion
Healthcare workers are the backbone of our medical system, but we cannot continue to expect them to give their best when they are subjected to abuse, retaliation, and a culture of silence. Hospital leadership must do more than talk about compassion, they need to act on it. By creating a safe environment where workers feel valued, supported, and protected, we can ensure that healthcare workers can perform their duties to the best of their abilities without fear of mistreatment.
When healthcare leaders consider the long-term effects of staff abuse on their well-being, their mental health, and their future, they can begin to realize that change is not just suggested but urgently needed. Letโs shift the narrative and begin protecting the people who take care of us and make sure that abuse and violence in healthcare are truly no laughing matter.
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